I was 14 years old when I was placed into foster care, and aged out when I went to the University of West Virginia. I refer to myself as the "5-4-3-2-1 case" because during my time in foster care, I lived in 5 different foster homes, 4 group home/residential facilities, had 3 social workers, 2 mentors, 1 CASA worker and a Guardian ad Litem. Each of these individuals played a significant role in shaping my foster care experience, and I am very thankful for their support, both big and small.

I graduated from college, believing that a good education would provide me with opportunities and stability. Instead, I found myself jobless and lacking the necessary connections or guidance to know how to succeed - which is the case for almost every youth who ages out of foster care.

After several years of trying to find my place in life, a job opportunity with the DC Teacher’s Union and a ton of hard work brought me some clarity, and eventually led me to become an executive director at the age of 28. Since then I have led several nonprofit organizations, and currently serve as the Executive Director for the Foster and Adoptive Parent Advocacy Center (FAPAC). My journey was not easy, but every experience mattered. Every failure was a learning opportunity, and a step towards my vision, even when I didn’t know it at the time. Although I wish I didn’t have to do it alone, not having the support taught me a lot about the needs of youth aging out of care and transitioning into adulthood.

When we think about the foster care system, we often hyper-focus on the emotional trauma experienced by youth. We frequently overlook the need to help these young people achieve tangible successes in life, as a means of growing their self-esteem - something I learned when I made it onto the Women's Rowing Team at West Virginia University. Youth need to learn how to win! This is a factor in Positive Childhood Experiences that help children combat the effects of trauma, depression, and anxiety. To achieve those successes, youth need every adult in their life to join their team. It's important to admit and respect that foster care is difficult for everyone involved—youth, foster parents, social workers, CASAs, Guardian ad Litems, birth parents, siblings and other family members. However, if we can work through those tough emotions, collaborate with one another, and increase positive experiences, the team wins, and youth find their place in life. And they even learn to maneuver challenges in their future, which are sure to come.

My goal is to bring us all together for better collaboration. My journey has led me to this point, where I aim to serve those impacted by the foster care system, and I look forward to collaborating with you!